Dear Lisa Ann: A guy in serous like, a girl who wants new sex moves, and falling in love with someone who is married

Former No. 1 Adult Film Star Lisa Ann has been putting the “fantasy” in SiriusXM’s Fantasy Sports Radio every Monday night at 10 pm ET for awhile now, but she also knows a thing or two about real life. Each week, she’ll be answering your burning questions about sex, relationships and her personal life. This time around, she’s tackling: The difference between Facebook friends vs. real friends, managing her Psoriasis, and the after effects of a career in the adult film industry.

Dear Lisa Ann,

There’s this girl I met earlier this year. She is so dynamite and dynamic, her energy and personality are something I dig as well. I’ve taken a liking to her and she is someone I have great hopes for. My question is, how can I make her feel that she is special and deserving of attention?

– A Man in Serious Like

Dear Serious Like,

I am just as happy to answer your question as I was to read it! I can tell how sincere you are by the words you used to express how you feel about her and that is a very good start for the foundation of your new relationship! When you have that positive of an impression of someone and you love being in their company, you instantly go in search of how to make it last. Let’s start with simple things: Communication is key, let her know how you feel by telling her. A simple text during the day telling her you are thinking about her and that you think she is awesome will brighten her day. I also suggest you pay close attention to her interests and plan activities that she already loves, but that you can do together. I also love to send mail to those I care about. A letter or a card, but the key is to keep it a surprise and let her find it without you warning her it is on the way. As adults the mail is just bills and junk mail to sort though before throwing it away. I guarantee a little card in the mail will make her smile and feel very special. I wish you endless happiness with this dynamic girl. I will be looking forward to some email updates on your progress.

– Lisa Ann

Dear Lisa Ann,

I would love to try something new in the bedroom. Any suggestions? I want to keep him coming back for more so I like to try new things. I would love to blow his mind!!

Thanks,

– New Tricks

Dear New Tricks,

One sexy little thing that makes a huge difference is remembering to start with the power of scent. A scented candle or two and a special body lotion can appeal to that last sense and instantly create an exotic environment. That’s step one. I would suggest as many surprises as possible. Time to get online and look at some different sex toys, lotions, lubes and sexy outfits. Once you start to explore and try some new things yourself, everything else will come naturally.

– Lisa Ann

Dear Lisa Ann,

Lisa, I met a married woman and we’ve been hooking up for like a year. Her husband knows and is ok with it, but I fell in love and I told her. Now what do I do?

– The Cuckolder

Dear Cuckolder,

Well, well, well. Here is where things get tricky and one of the reasons the best bet is to only date and/or fall in love with available people. Her husband may be comfortable with sharing her with you, but it is less than likely he will want to let her go. I never suggest any involvement with someone already in a relationship, even just hooking up and this is one of the many reasons. Relationships can’t be built on this type of a foundation. Consider this, if by chance you do get her to yourself and she leaves her husband, you could potentially be the next guy who has to share her with someone else and loose her to that guy once he falls in love with her. It’s called Karma. It’s real and something you need to think about. There is never a good enough reason to want to have someone that already is married to someone else. And that is the clear case here. I suggest you don’t take it any further, look back at the experience for what it was and move on to find a girl of your own. But this time make sure she is single.

– Lisa Ann

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